Have you ever noticed someone who seems to hop from one relationship to the next without a pause? This pattern, known as monkey-barring, is more common than you might think. It describes a situation where someone stays in a current relationship while simultaneously building a connection with another person, often out of fear of being alone.
Many people monkey-bar because they are uncomfortable with solitude and prefer the security of having someone lined up before leaving. This can lead to a cycle where they never truly reflect on their own needs or emotions. Instead of taking the time to heal from past relationships, they rush into new ones, often dragging unresolved issues along. Prioritizing your own healing and self-discovery can lead to healthier relationships in the future.
Relationship expert Angelika Koch told Vice, monkey-barring can stunt emotional growth. Individuals who engage in this behavior might not realize that they are bypassing the opportunity to learn about themselves outside of their relationships.
Moreover, monkey-barring is different from polyamory, which is based on consent and mutual understanding among all partners involved. In contrast, monkey-barring often involves deception and a lack of transparency. This can cause significant harm not only to the people involved but also to one's personal growth. If you find yourself constantly moving from one partner to another without a break, it might be time to pause and reflect. Prioritizing your own healing and self-discovery can lead to healthier relationships in the future.
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